You want to know the problem I have with society?
Societies are too much like abusive parents.

And, as with any other abusive parent, it's main focus is on controlling, pawning, and consistently punishing its civilian underlings.

Societies have no interest in the personal development and growth of their citizens.
Their only concerns are with obedience and compliance, and with having the license to severely punish any citizen who "audaciously" displays any sort of attitudes and behaviors indicative of defiance or rebelliousness towards it and whatever demands it makes upon them.